Feeling Questions - SOLWorld2024-03-28T10:41:10Zhttp://solworld.org/forum/topics/feeling-questions?groupUrl=sfasia&feed=yes&xn_auth=noThank you of all the insights…tag:solworld.org,2017-05-01:2102269:Comment:761802017-05-01T14:36:40.242ZSimon Leehttp://solworld.org/profile/SimonLee
<div class="_3b-9"><div><div class="clearfix"><div><div class="UFIImageBlockContent _42ef clearfix"><div><div class="UFICommentContentBlock"><div class="UFICommentContent"><span>Thank you of all the insights....I am re-posting it here for the benefit of other coaches in Asia - Simon Lee.…</span></div>
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<div class="UFICommentContent"><span><a class=" UFICommentActorName" dir="ltr" href="https://www.facebook.com/dc9427?fref=ufi" id="js_8lq" name="js_8lq">이재원</a></span> <span>Well... I think I've been greatly influenced by Eve Lipchik who was one of the original members in BFTC in the late 1970s. According to her(2002), you could help your clients to address their feelings and emotions in SFBT. Well... how could we talk about their best hopes without listening to their "bad" emotions? Or... how could we reach them ignoring their natural emotions? Let me ask you a simple question. Why not?</span></div>
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<div class="UFICommentContent"><div class="_3b-9"><div><div class="clearfix"><div><div class="UFIImageBlockContent _42ef clearfix"><div><div class="UFICommentContentBlock"><div class="UFICommentContent"><span><a class=" UFICommentActorName" dir="ltr" href="https://www.facebook.com/sveavanderhoorn?fref=ufi">Svea van der Hoorn</a></span> <span><span><span><span class="UFICommentBody"><span>Had an interesting time with </span><a class="profileLink" dir="ltr" target="_blank" href="https://www.facebook.com/KirstenDierolf?hc_location=ufi">Kirsten Dierolf</a><span> and a group of participants recently in a Cape Town based SF workshop. We explored different ways of talking about feelings. Assuming an interactional, non-causal stance. Assuming a mentalistic, deterministic stance. It wasn't easy initially, but once in the groove, the conversations flowed, and the differences showed up clearly.</span></span></span></span></span></div>
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<div><div class="UFICommentContentBlock"><div class="UFICommentContent"><span><a class=" UFICommentActorName" dir="ltr" href="https://www.facebook.com/sveavanderhoorn?fref=ufi">Svea van der Hoorn</a></span> <span>Yip - let's not be specific content phobic, or act as if some questions will bring the SF police running. When we hear an SF practiitoner ask "how do you feel?" I'd keep listening for another at least 5 utterances between them to experience what space the question opens and what is co-created. I'm not a fan of telling some content and some questions to go stand outside. Leaving the discussion now. Enjoy</span></div>
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